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please remember that in a healthy, adult relationship (romantic or not), you should be able to talk about things that are bothering you. if you are bottling up your emotions and holding it against someone when you haven’t told them what is wrong, you’re not engaging in healthy behaviour. but also, if your friend/significant other makes you feel as though you can’t talk about what bothers you- i.e. has made you feel guilty/gotten extraordinarily angry when things were brought up in the past- they are not engaging in healthy behaviour.
i want a relationship but i want them to be like a friend to me, i dont want the relationship to be all about kissing, making out and sex i just wanna hang out with them, and go places, and just have fun wherever we go
This post is surreal because that is exactly how a healthy relationship should be yet we’re convinced this is a weird and unusual thing to ask of our partners.
Reblogging for the second comment.
speaking to someone every single day can be pretty destructive because there’s gonna come a day where for the fist time you don’t speak at all and it’s the loneliest feeling in the world
NFS
I think it’s very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person.
1) Even if this sounds cliché, it’s okay to be yourself. If you have to change yourself to be friends with someone, then it isn’t worth it.
2) No matter how many times you feel alone. Remember, you’re never alone. There’s always someone who understands you.
3) It’s okay to cry. It’s healthy to cry. It’s not a sign of weakness.
4) It’s okay to have opinions about other people. You don’t always have to get along with everyone.
5) But, it’s also important to treat people with kindness and respect. Remember that they might be going through some tough times of their own.
6) Approach every decision with a level head. Don’t say things without thinking of the consequences.
7) It’s okay to make mistakes. There are always second chances in life.
8) Keep an open mind. It’s important to be willing to see things in a clear perspective, free from any negative thoughts.
9) Don’t ever think of harming yourself. Ever. Even if you’re not aware of it, there are so many people who care about you.
10) Respect other people’s beliefs. It’s okay to not share the same beliefs as someone else. What’s not okay is disrespecting someone for it.
- LGBT+ fans when they see a realistic, well-written, healthy LGBT+ relationship in media: *genuinely cry/tear up during their scenes, talk about them with nothing but love and admiration, are just glad to be represented, recommend the show to their LGBT+ friends, enjoy all aspects of their relationship while also not being afraid to critisize where needed*
- Straight fans: So when are they gonna fuck lmao who's the dom and who's the sub who tops and who bottoms!!! I love my gays!!!
im thirsty af for
a healthy relationship with a significant other in which we both love and support each other and genuinely enjoy being in each others company
A healthy relationship is one where two independent people just make a deal that they will help make the other person be the best version of themselves.
Daily reminder:
If they wanna talk to you, they will. If they wanna be with you, they will. If they wanna make things work, they will. Don’t let things be one sided. It’s not healthy, and it’s not fair to you.

